A few hours before –
some went to sleep deliberately.
some were quarreling over per person monetary contribution for the gift.
some were forcefully invited for decorating the room.
some skipped the distasteful mess dinner.
All gathered together at 12 am. And happily ate… err.. sung ‘Happy vala birthday to dear friend’
Loose talks, something we all do.
This week, I realised that ‘loose talks’ when done with close people creates wonderful inner smileys [ 😊😆😘😍], However, when done with random formality nibhaao people, it drains our internal energy [🙇🙈😖]
Finally, got the photo to express how I feel when others who invest so much energy in being clever and smart (shaakaal vali smartness) to achieve something and in the end life slowly turns its camera towards simple and humbled beings!
When life turns its camera towards simple and humbled beings! 😉
‘Bhagvan ke Ghar mein HD camera hai, Jo undekha Tadka bhi pakad leta hai! ‘
How well we get coloured by the flaws of other being without uttering ouchh – decides the quality of our bonding and relationship with the other.
Flaws come along with awesomeness. And what we acknowledge more shapes our connection.
If something hurts/ disappoints us about the other, let’s not make it a mental screen saver and keep it playing for months and years ; instead, take a pause to reflect onto series of good things & enormous care s/he has done for you.
I’ve learned that difficult conversation simplifies relationships [any relations, not.just romantic ones]. Creating a space and environment to set up discussion on things which sounds uncomfortable builds pathway for heart-centric approach towards life. [Being true to inner self].
I’ve also learned that communication is like a proper ventilation in the room of relations.
Communicate from the core of the heart, never ever presume that ‘they’ will understand. Never ever hesitate to share how you feel. If you feel shy to say, write it down and post it or drop a mail.
Express yourself. Practice, rehearse and speak up creatively as if you are kissing a dew drop meditating on a rose petal.
Got up at 4.50 am.
Dropped a handwritten gratitude note for someone special.
Worked out in gym for 30 mins.
Meditated under the tree for 10-15 mins
Japa for couple of minutes.
# Felt super charged for the whole day.
As Sadhguru says, ‘If we work on balancing our physical, mental and emotional energies, we can achieve whatever we want to’
I’m so thankful to the trees, birds, tiny insects, birds, grass, flowers, falling leaves and animals for patiently allowing me to click their photos.
I wish, I could show them how beautiful they look.