How well we get coloured by the flaws of other being without uttering ouchh – decides the quality of our bonding and relationship with the other.
Flaws come along with awesomeness. And what we acknowledge more shapes our connection.
If something hurts/ disappoints us about the other, let’s not make it a mental screen saver and keep it playing for months and years ; instead, take a pause to reflect onto series of good things & enormous care s/he has done for you.
I’ve learned that difficult conversation simplifies relationships [any relations, not.just romantic ones]. Creating a space and environment to set up discussion on things which sounds uncomfortable builds pathway for heart-centric approach towards life. [Being true to inner self].
I’ve also learned that communication is like a proper ventilation in the room of relations.
Communicate from the core of the heart, never ever presume that ‘they’ will understand. Never ever hesitate to share how you feel. If you feel shy to say, write it down and post it or drop a mail.
Express yourself. Practice, rehearse and speak up creatively as if you are kissing a dew drop meditating on a rose petal.