An epic failure and mistake is an opportunity to zoom the e-PicTure and reflect on the lessons.
This year, I did many mistakes and failed terribly while executing the projects, plans and promises. However, they taught me 2 big lessons.
1. No one is busy. [Parents kaise time nikaalte hain kabhi bhi – kahin bhi – kaise bhi ]. It’s just that we all have different priority lists. If someone doesn’t finds time for us it indicates that we are not their top priorities.And in that case, the best thing we could offer them is the least disturbance and interference of our presence in their life.
2. Words are magnetically charged packets.The quality of words we use decides the quality of life experiences we attract in our lives.[I’m happy, I want to travel Australia, I want to fall in love, I want to master photography, I want to write research articles etc]
While going to attend weddings, people use their mind nichod nichod ke to remember what they’ve been given by the family jinke yahaan shaadi hai to them jab unke yahan shaadi thi and then the kharche ki range is decided of the gift to be purchased.
When birthday is celebrated, the quality of treat is proportional to the amount of gifts gifted.
When people help instead of andar se mann maar rahe ho, just because unki madadd ke liye varna kaun log daudenge.
When people give things for free not because they want to, but because they think log unkaa naam zor zor se gun-gunaayenge – log pehchaanenge.
I’ve unlearned one thing that never ask – ‘What should I give’ in the first place.’
First enquire – ‘Why I want to help? What’s my intention behind giving? What’s my hidden agenda behind giving things away for free?’
Because things are first created in our minds. And whatever we create in our minds goes out in the world in the form of vibrations which sooner or later echoes back to us! So, a healthy intention comes first over a helping hand.